Hey Rod,
Sorry to hear about how disgraceful your missus is treating you.
There’s so much of this shit going around it’s not funny.
I am surprised she didn’t file for an AVO at the same time. That’s what a lot of women do if they want to get the upper hand in a federal circuit court matter. Then the family report writers and/or family consultants working at the federal circuit court tag you as a perpetrator of domestic violence even though the protection order may be temporary and not have reached a final conclusion, and even though your weren’t there to defend yourself in the initial protection order hearing.
The system is basically a dog’s breakfast.
At least you have your brother’s house to stay in.
Take care brother.